The End of Friendship

You laugh together, cry together, travel together, shop together, eat together, trust each other, love one another…. What happened? How can all this come to an end?

As life gets busier due to your career, relationships, meeting new friends, parenting and self care, this can have an impact on some friendships. Once, two peas in a pod, are no longer. The shift in priorities, new perspective on life, increased level of confidence, jealousy, judgmental and growth—creates different paths and opinions. This doesn’t make anyone better than the other, it just makes things different…and that‘s ok. We have to learn to accept the path others choose. This doesn’t mean someone is at fault or negative factors involved, it simply means the friendship ran its course. Sometimes we may not completely understand the end of the friendship. There may have been signs along the way, we just chose to ignore them. We’ve accepted questionable behavior against our better judgment because of who we chose to love and invite in our space.

Friendship is a vibe. It’s suppose to give energy of peace and comfort. To bond with those who can be your safe haven. Of course we want that energy of peace to last forever, sometimes it doesn’t. And when it doesn’t, be strong enough to create new circles. Circles of trust, circles of love, circles of joy and circles of peace.

“Someone asked if I knew you. A million memories flashed through my mind but I smiled and said I used to”